校友感言:梅舒颦




有时会觉得不可思议,如果8年前不是朋友拿着报上的招生简章向我推荐了中澳班并极力劝我一试,如果不是有幸父母愿把我当作潜力股对我本人和我的未来下注作投资,那么我会有怎样一幅另外的人生图景和生命轨迹呢?
回顾我自己这好几年的留澳经历,要说学业上当时一起在LATROBE 上课一班的齐超和张闵倒说得上'得出色成绩' ,我则实在离那个标准有差距,也许说我尽量努力走好每一步,能每次朝着心中所想的近一点倒更贴切。
很高兴您能让我们有这个机会,作为同龄人更作为华师大中澳项目的毕业生来分享我几年来海外留学的所见所闻,所思所感。我个人比较深刻的体会之一是,也许我们某些方面的潜能在国内较优越的生活和家庭环境下,不大可能甚至永远都发挥不出来。隔着太平洋,远离自己熟悉的环境和家人朋友,对我们这批80年代的人用英文来说就是 "lt's absolutely like getting out of our comfort zone". You learn how to SURVIVE and how to truly grow and shine in every possible way. We fall, as everyone does, but we get up again,learn from our own mistakes, and still keep up the good spirit. We know life keeps moving on and we gotta go for the next. Just because tomorrow is another day, isn't it?
我想每个人笔下和脑海中对墨尔本的描绘一定应该是不同的,这并不是因为它本身与我们而言有多大不同,而是在这个城市里发生于自己身上的故事,开心的,不开心的一幕幕,偶遇的人和物或擦肩而过或永远记取,那些值得你去珍惜收藏的青春回忆,让我们心中的Melbourne and Aussie Experience so so so...diifferent. That is?part of my life treasure. I will take the knowledge and experiences I gain and those memorable moments with me forever, no matter in which corner of the world I will stay. 而也正是这些点点滴滴让我们真正成长,在每天平凡的生活中学会问自己 'WHY'? 而当你有了越来越清晰的答案后, 你会发觉 if your WHY is big and strong enough, you will work out HOW?
挺奇怪,我十分渴望回国工作并感受一下在中国的工作环境。With the rise of China (though it might take more years than we hope, finger crossed for our country),there are definitely more opportunities in such economically vibrant city like Shanghai. I always want to be part of it and hope that I can apply what I have leant from overseas and broaden my working experience.
06年的12月应朋友之邀,参加了她在RMIT的硕士毕业典礼。墨尔本皇家理工(RMIT) 一年一度的这种全校毕业生的盛会全球闻名。它的独到之处在于所有文凭和学历的年度本科,硕士,博士生都会在能容纳上万人的TELSTRA DOME 同一时间从VICE CHANCELLOR 手中获取那一纸证书。据说美国有大学也打算向RMIT学,用这种方式举行毕业礼庆典。那一天晚上,灯火通明的体育馆内毕业生们被四五千亲朋好友和鲜花簇拥着,笑容和自豪洋溢在他们每个人的脸上。What a brilliant and awesome night! 当目睹他们一个一个走向舞台的时候,我真心祝愿在不久的将来他们中的每一个都能在'社会'这个真实的大舞台中找到属于自己的一片天空。It will also be my wishes to our ECNU-LTU graduates in the upcoming years.
其实从自己有限的海外留学经历,也到了迈过Teenager的阶段, 我更愿意用电影<<周鱼的火车>>中那句台词送给学弟学妹们, '伸出你的手,握紧它,未来就在你眼前,在你自己的手中。'也未必只有出国对于每个人前途才是最好的出路,不论出不出国, 只要爱你所学所做始终如一地为自己的目标努力,相信在哪里珍珠总会被人从黄沙堆中发现的。当然,要想以最快的速度,最轻松的方式来实现这个过程, 也许这则需要老祖宗说的天时,地利,人和的运气了。Luck does play a role in our life. Nevertheless, if your mind and heart is going towards it, you will get there one day. Would you believe this?
Well, I really should stop rambling on now. Please let me know which part of my life in Australia I shall be particularly focusing on and sharing with our students from LTU-ECNU program. I can share my story in more details in the next couple of emails. I will send more photos at my workplace and Deakin later. Catch you soon and all the best for our program.